The Do's And Don’ts Of Food Snobbery
The Do's And Don’ts of Food Snobbery
Foodies, food-lovers, epicures, culinarians, overly enthusiastic
omnivores… whatever you want to call them, they all have one thing in common:
an extreme passion and appreciation for food. Whether it’s cooking food, eating
food, or simply discussing food, they get lost in the multi-sensory experience
and start speaking in tongues that are usually indecipherable to others. If you
are one of these people (like myself), you know how often you straddle that
line between adorable food-geek and pretentious food-snob. I slipped over to
the dark side a week or so ago when I caught myself uttering the phrase “I am
SO into heirloom tomatoes right now…” and then proceeded to give a recipe for
my heirloom tomato, feta, bacon and watermelon salad without being prompted to.
Even though my recipe might be delicious, I immediately thought to myself “wow,
I sound like an ass.”
Here’s the thing most of us food-people don’t realize: nobody cares.
Unless the subject in question is a food-person too (or a non-food person with
a potluck to go to), no one wants to hear about the flavor profiles of the
“sinfully decadent” soufflé you made or the ideal cacao percentage to use for
baking. We assume that since it’s food and it’s something we all partake in
every day, that it’s ok to wax on and on about… wax beans. Well, it’s not. It’s
the same as a computer-geek talking to you about the new operating system for
the iPhone when all you know about the iPhone is that it has Angry Birds and
Words with Friends. Most people just eat to live, and we live to eat;
significant difference, for sure, but there has to be a way the two worlds can
coexist peaceably without pretension.
We always see food blogs and magazines teaching us how to pronounce
things correctly and how to expertly pair wines with cheeses and that’s all
well and good… but what about us? Shouldn't there be some guidelines to keep us
humble and in the adorable food-geek zone? I give you: The Do’s and Don’ts of
Food Snobbery.
NEVER correct
pronunciations unless it’s absolutely necessary. If Italians can get away with
dropping vowels, you can let your friends pick them up. “Moozarell” and “Mozzarella”
mean the same thing to waiters. I promise.
DO take it upon
yourself to be the designated cook/ host when your friends or family are having
a party. You know you love to cook, they know you love to cook, and hey, you’re
good at it! So why not let everyone else take a break while you put those foodie
talents to good use? And if you can’t cook everything, at the very least you
should make ONE dish. Everyone will enjoy themselves, and no one will suffer
food poisoning from Aunt Gail’s chicken masala again.
DON’T push your friends
into trying foods outside of their comfort zone. It’s fine to ask and give some
reasons why they should — go ahead, foodie, give your pitch! If they still
don’t budge, give up. Not everyone is going to enjoy quinoa-crusted, deep fried
oysters on the half shell with a creamy pisco pepper and garlic sauce. Those
are to die for, by the way. Sorry couldn't help myself. #foodsnobproblems
AVOID over-explaining the
taste of something. This isn't Top Chef. If someone
asks you how your salmon/steak/chicken was, say, “it’s okay… a little
overcooked but not bad.” DON’T say, “underwhelming. I expected more of this
place. I mean, is it SO hard to pan-sear a steak in a cast iron skillet and
finish it off in the oven to a nice medium rare? The juices have hardly been
retained. They must have not let it rest long enough. Way to ruin a perfectly
good piece of meat. Do two Michelin stars mean the meat tastes like tires? Ugh.
OH you know who makes a GREAT steak? That little hole in the wall place on
West… something… do you know what I’m talking about? No? Well whatever. Yeah.
THEIR steak is ahhhmaaazzzinnggg.” Food. Snob.
DON’T pan a place simply
because everyone else loves it and you want to be different. People often think
this makes them seem like they have a more refined palate than the masses.
Everyone is entitled to their opinion, but generally speaking, this doesn't make you sound knowledgeable; it makes you sound like an ass. “Shake Shack?
Please. It’s garbage. I've had better burgers in gas stations.” No you haven’t
and you know it. Shut up.
REMAIN open for advice
and food discussion. There’s nothing wrong with indulging in a 15-minute
conversation about kitchen gadgets, if the other person is willingly continuing
it. Some people are closet food-geeks, and this is the perfect opportunity to
bond with co-workers or that cute guy/ girl in the office. “Oh, you need help
selecting a cheese grater, you say? Well, I happen to have to go to Sur La
Table anyway to buy a new microplane. Why don’t we go together? And perhaps
grab some artisan cheese samples and wine afterward?” Foodie dates rule.
ALWAYS steer clear of
high prices when giving restaurant recommendations to friends. Unless the
friend specifically said “money is not an object,” most people don’t want to pay
£28 for five pieces of butternut squash ravioli lightly sautéed in sage butter.
No matter how good it might be. As my mom so delicately put it, “unless there’s
money inside the ravioli, that’s f$%&ing insane.”
Brigs,
ReplyDeleteLoved this post. Well done.
Di
Thanks Di, it is so true
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